<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[How to get a guy 101]]></title><description><![CDATA[How to get a guy 101]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 02 May 2026 01:06:32 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[The problem with "The one that got away."]]></title><description><![CDATA[Imagine this: I was seventeen, fresh in the dating pool. And I met this guy on the apps, of course, who was taking a gap year before he...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/the-problem-with-the-one-that-got-away</link><guid isPermaLink="false">643421f8fdce8c6c1e689ddf</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Apr 2023 15:32:06 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The “Dean, Jess and Logan” tribute.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Here's the deal, I've been watching a lot of Gilmore girls lately. And by "a lot", I basically mean that I binged the entire show while I...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/the-dean-jess-and-logan-tribute</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63ee5f5878405dbb36fcc258</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2023 17:58:12 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Lost and confused.]]></title><description><![CDATA["I feel like I've lost myself in depression the past two months and am struggling to climb out of it. I have problems with my family...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/lost-and-confused</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62b1d725fa4bcab1d4d0bdff</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jun 2022 15:09:04 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The way we live now.]]></title><description><![CDATA[A short piece I wrote for my English literature class about heartache and new beginnings, I hope you like it. :) Everyone always loves to...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/the-way-we-live-now</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62b0b37d8115c36ea974ba35</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2022 17:53:11 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Falling back into old patterns.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Honestly, falling in love is a real shit show when you're so young. I mean, I'm twenty, unsure of where life will take me, and it feels...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/falling-back-into-old-patterns</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62b0a432f6563a047c073f60</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2022 17:48:55 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Pick your poison.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Ever since the beginning of rom coms and trashy tabloid magazines, I have been fooled into thinking that one day some perfect man will...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/pick-your-poison</link><guid isPermaLink="false">620175d6ebb13e8bc434460e</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2022 19:43:29 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Just my type.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Up until recently I never saw anything wrong with dating guys that are your type. I mean, you're bound to be more compatible if the guy...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/just-my-type</link><guid isPermaLink="false">61d6f6616bdc030016f1aa60</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2022 14:16:01 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The thing about sex.]]></title><description><![CDATA[All my life, sex has been built up in my head by the people around me to be this amazing, life-changing thing. Losing your virginity is...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/i-m-afraid-to-have-sex</link><guid isPermaLink="false">61ba572db8fa690016cabaf5</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Dec 2021 21:38:27 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Healing doesn't happen overnight.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dearest readers, Some of us are lucky - We walk out of a past relationship feeling less destroyed than when we walked into it, but that...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/healing-doesn-t-happen-overnight</link><guid isPermaLink="false">61a79b637a7181001609df9b</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Dec 2021 14:02:02 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Baggage comes in two suitcases.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dearest reader, Up until recently I've been weighing this heavy feeling on my shoulders over a particular boy that I've been seeing. At...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/baggage-comes-in-two-suitcases</link><guid isPermaLink="false">619cb21a512c2300168ca014</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Nov 2021 12:47:10 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[A letter to you.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dearest reader, Recently I came across something I wrote back in March to a guy I was once in love with. I debated whether or not posting...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/a-letter-to-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6192826edc9c7400164844b7</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2021 16:00:06 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The first crack in the glass. ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dearest reader, I'm sure we're all reeling from the goddess herself, Taylor Swift, whose new album was recently released and is marking a...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/the-first-crack-in-the-glass</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6192778cb2a601001693f44e</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2021 15:45:30 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Okay, but how do you actually get the guy?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Here on how to get the guy 101, I talk about a series of subjects relating to dating, dates and dudes. Although a reader seems to want to...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/okay-but-how-do-you-actually-get-the-guy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6188fc49c7d85e00166350c4</guid><pubDate>Mon, 08 Nov 2021 11:03:50 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The 1-in-10 rule]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dearest readers, If it's never crossed your mind that the world is filled with walking trash bags with legs, then you haven't lived long...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/the-1-in-10-rule</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6188ec2d4d650800165b9d92</guid><pubDate>Mon, 08 Nov 2021 09:44:12 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Blake and Matthew complex.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Everyday I'm reminded that everyone has a curse. It might be your good-for-nothing job that you feel you'll never get out of. Maybe it's...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/the-blake-and-matthew-complex</link><guid isPermaLink="false">616fd6b4b3bdcb0016c3f0a6</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2021 09:12:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[It's not your fault.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today I received a message from one of you guys asking for my help so I'll be answering on here. This particular reader said: "Dear Luke...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/it-s-not-your-fault</link><guid isPermaLink="false">61507c265c01a200165e1274</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Sep 2021 14:03:45 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The ''benefits'' of friends with benefits.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Liam "Wanna go back to my place?" The whole sentence threw me. We've been drinking, after a night out. It was late, I was tired, but part...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/the-benefits-of-friends-with-benefits</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6124c63df899100016038b0f</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2021 11:02:09 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA["We can still be friends." - Outdated or overrated?]]></title><description><![CDATA[We've all experienced the decent torture of a well heartbroken break up, and if you haven’t - then you surely will at least once in your...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/we-can-still-be-friends-outdated-or-overrated</link><guid isPermaLink="false">611c0d8fc0375d00159b3e6b</guid><pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2021 19:30:40 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is hot girl summer still trending?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Everyone says it's fine to be single. That you should enjoy it while it lasts. Enjoy the attention of every guy without consequence,...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/is-hot-girl-summer-still-trending</link><guid isPermaLink="false">60fb3c668414210015eeaeb1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2021 22:45:41 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Does he deserve another chance?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Guys make mistakes. Forgetting an anniversary, not answering his phone for hours on end, cheating on you and lying about it, etcetera...]]></description><link>https://lukemeyer152.wixsite.com/howtogettheguy101/post/does-he-deserve-a-second-chance</link><guid isPermaLink="false">60ec642b4ab2cc0015086125</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2021 23:28:49 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Luke Meyer</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>